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Thursday, November 18, 2010

The Art Of Writing A Matrimonial Profile

By Naeem A Syed

You have taken a decision to get married. Then it is the right time that you learn how to create a Matrimonial Profile. There are several things that you should know before you commit yourself to enter into a relationship. Writing a Profile for a job is different from writing a Profile for your Marriage. Here you do not need any marital experience, unless you are in a situation to go for a second marriage.

If you happen to read a few Matrimonial Profiles for selecting a spouse for your marriage, you will be having a calculated idea about your potential Bride or Groom. Yet, if the Profile you read may give some and do not carry the required first hand information, naturally you will move on to the next Profile to see if you could get what you need. You will repeat screening many more Profiles of Matrimony for making the dreams of your wedding true.

While looking at the Profiles with a cursory glance, think for a moment that you are searching a life partner for you. Then you will know what information to look for and what sort of information is not given in that profile, which you think is very essential for you to know and take a decision for a preliminary contact with the person.

Hence, remember that when you present yourself in writing, the reader of your Profile draws an imaginary picture of yours in his or her mind. It is your expression that could brighten or blur this picture you created in the mind of your potential spouse.

Honesty Gets Paid

Be honest in disclosing your details. You can give your original name or a nice, attractive and meaningful Nick Name. Your age is always calculated parallel with your Professional Qualifications. The more you are qualified, the less is the importance of your age. The Profession and the annual income too play an important roll in the selection of a spouse for Matrimony.

Try to give maximum information about yourself. Any Matrimonial Questionnaire covers most of the first hand information a potential spouse needs for the best selection of the profile holder for wedding.

Details of your parents, siblings etc. are an added advantage to disclose about your family set up and social status you enjoy.

Your personal interests, hobbies etc are helpful to judge about the personality and instinct you have within you.

Profile Description

When you write about yourself in the Profile Description column, please note that this is the most important column which will make the reader of your Profile of Matrimony to have a thorough idea about you. This is the column mostly plays the main roll and helps the reader to take a decision whether to select you for a preliminary contact or move on to the next Profile on the list.

Here you describe yourself in a very well articulated manner. Be truthful and honest in disclosing the details. Use polite language giving maximum information about your personality, your job, your earnings; any left out matter you think should be made known to your potential spouse for selection. You have 1000 characters to write well for your marriage. Do not fill the column with Dots, dashes or slashes. Doing so will only reflect your inability to describe yourself. Do not use any single character repeatedly to fill up the entire text box, with or without any space.

Positively write your Partner Preferences for Marriage. This will help the system to auto-match your requirements and send you alert if a new member possessing your Partner preferences registers in the system.

Adding Photographs

Finally, after submitting the filled up Matrimonial Profile, using the Log In and Password sent to your registered Email address, log in to the system, which will take you to your Home Page being created for you. From here you can upload three different photographs - one main photo and two other for the album, depending upon the set up of the program of the Matrimonial Website.

Photographs speak more than 1000 words. Let your photo be a good one, vivid and smart. A person planning for his or her Marriage first searches the Matrimonial Profiles with photographs. By adding the Photo you give your potential spouse a fair chance to form an idea about your personality coupled with the description you have given in your Profile. Photographs help take a spontaneous decision in the selection for preliminary contact for marriage purpose. It has been seen that the Profiles having Photographs receive 5 to 10 times more response from the potential spouses than the ones without Photographs.

If you are reluctant to display your Photographs and believe that though the photographs speak more than 1000 words, they do not speak reality, due to the absence of your photogenic face cut, then you could mention in your Matrimonial Profile that the same will be sent to the person separately on demand, or could be given on the first personal contact with you or with your family.

Naeem Syed is the Founder And CEO of Shaadmaani.Com A Social Worker And Responsible Citizen of India, Naeem Syed has a couple of Websites for the benefit of Citizens of this world. He writes on Social Issues and Cultures. Naeem Syed may be contacted at http://www.Shaadmaani.Com and http://www.AmburNet.Com

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Saturday, November 13, 2010

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

By Laura Young

My husband and I have a perfect marriage.

There. I said it.

Now some of you may be inclined to roll your eyes or gag. Some of you may think I'm exaggerating, lying or suffering from some delusion. Some of you may feel like I'm bragging or insensitively flaunting my happiness in total disregard of all of those folks who don't have a partner or unconditional love in their lives.

In the past, I would have succumbed to the pressure, and believe me, it IS pressure, to keep my big mouth shut when I would hear folks talk about marriage, or the opposite sex. Regardless of whether I was sitting in the therapist chair talking to clients, on the phone coaching someone or sitting across from a friend at lunch, whenever the topic of marriage came up it I'd hear the litany, "We fight like everyone else." "It's never perfect." and the half-statements delivered with an eye roll and knowing glance, "You know...men...", "You know...women..."

Let's face it. No marriage is perfect!

When I was younger, if I voiced my objection to these sweeping statements, "Well, actually we don't fight." "My husband isn't like that at all." I would be met with, "How long have you been married?" "Five years." Then the smirk, "Oh, you're still babies...just you wait." Or if they would concede that we did have a good marriage it was always disregarded with comments like, "Well, you're LUCKY." And, many times I would be told outright, "I don't want to hear about your happy marriage. I'm married to a jerk."

So, you hear this enough and you learn to keep your trap shut.

Then, in a group last year, in the midst of a huge discussion about the perils and pitfalls of marriage one of the group members said,

"I think good marriages are an urban myth."

I just couldn't let that go.

The FACT is, 13 years in, our marriage is getting better every year. It isn't blind luck and it certainly wasn't beginner's luck, this being a second marriage for both of us. It breaks my heart to see so many bad marriages out there. It really does. A true marriage is an amazing and beautiful bond. (I do include same sex relationships here, despite my earlier reference to the "opposite sex".) Because we have so very few models of healthy marriages out there, I'd like to share what I have come to appreciate and understand about what makes a marriage work in the hope that some nugget will help you establish, create or strengthen your own bond.

1. 'Til death do us part. WOW. Do people even promise that anymore? You can't promise this AND get a pre-nup. I'm sorry if I'm offending everyone out there, but I think entering into a marriage with an exit clause is destructive and dangerous. Nothing you could say will change my mind on this so hang on to those e-mails. The reality is TRUST is critical in a marriage. You can't trust someone AND ask for a dissolution agreement 'just in case'. If you need that, one or both of you is holding back or is seeing something that you should be paying attention to but are trying to ignore. Yes, many people have been horribly hurt and feel they need to protect themselves from future risk as a result. Exactly. You are entering in to a relationship with someone you fundamentally do not trust. If I'm in a partnership with someone that may well see me through illness and death, I want to know they are up for that. I need to know that they are capable of loving me even when it's painful.

Paul Simon says it this way in "Look at That":

Ask somebody to love you takes a lot of nerve.

Ask somebody to love you,

you've got a lot of nerve.

I couldn't agree more. Think about what you are agreeing to when you enter in to a marriage. I didn't the first time. I'm older and wiser now. I get it. So does my husband.

2. You are married to/marrying an individual. A finite individual. An evolving individual. An individual put on this earth to do certain things, learn certain things.

The reality is your partner is going to change. This is simply a fact. And it is a fact that each INDIVIDUAL has to figure out for themselves what this life is going to mean to them and how they want to walk their path. You have to get your ego out of the way and love your partner through their evolution. It is NOT your partner's responsibility to stagnate because you fear change. It is NOT your partner's responsibility to stay locked in a life situation (say, a miserable job) to maintain your status quo.

Once again I have to give it up for Paul Simon, in his most excellent CD, "You're The One":

Nature gives up shapeless shapes Clouds and waves and flame But human expectation is that love remains the same And when it doesn't we point our fingers and blame blame blame

This whole evolution thing is one that I have really come to appreciate in thelast 5 years. When I changed my career I put myself on a path that acceleratedmy own personal evolution beyond anything I had ever experienced. And it scared me silly. I was one of those folks who feared growing apart from my husband. I didn't know how he would deal with my changing. In my first marriage my husband was overtly resistant to my growth and change, a predominant factor leading to our divorce. In fact, I have heard MANY stories of similar situations in other marriages...including threats of divorce when one or the other spouse showed signs of becoming too strong or too successful.

The reality for me now is that my husband is incredibly secure and confident and master of his own ship. And he expects me to be master of mine. He didn't marry a deck hand. Not only does he accept, but he nearly insists that I run my ship through all kinds of uncharted waters and assumes my journey will change me in a myriad of ways. We both know where the harbor is but neither of us wants the other to spend life docked in stagnant water.

3. Your partner is capable of experiencing an entire array of emotions, many of which will have nothing to do with you. Not every emotion is a reflection of you or is something you have to fix. This is a biggie for women especially, but I see it in men as well. Your spouse is angry about work, you have to make them happy. Your partner is sad, you feel inadequate because you were sure you were the source of eternal happiness for them. You're partner doesn't like their career, you stay in one that you hate, too, until they get settled in something they enjoy.

One of the things I appreciate the most about my husband, and myself within this marriage, is that we really do understand that we have our own paths. We have both spent many years in the medical field and we are, by nature, participants in life, so we have seen many heartbreaking things. My husband works with disabled children, I worked with adults. When you agree to be present to life, fully present, you expose yourself to great pain and grief as well as joy. Seeing many people die over the years and being with people through dark days in their lives has brought home to each of us that, in the end, it is your own story you are writing. Love each other all you want, but all you really KNOW is that you will be there when you die. And maybe that's all. So, there is a fundamental loneliness to life, existentially speaking. Everyone you know today can be gone tomorrow. Look, we've all seen that happen in recent years in this country.

So, recognizing the truth of this enables Scott and I to have conversations, as fellow humans, about what the journey looks like from our respective paths. We can admit to each other that we are lonely sometimes without feeling like we are making a derogatory comment about our marriage. We can be frightened, or sad or grieving and allow each other that without feeling we have failed by not protecting each other from that experience. Being married doesn't mean that you can protect each other from life on its most rawly human level.

4. Respect each other's process. Not everyone copes with everything the same way you do. We all are impacted by life in different ways. What your partner does is not a reflection of you or on you. Here are a couple examples: I used to work in the same hospital with my husband though we never saw each other during the day. When work was over, I'd meet him at his office and we'd walk to the car together. Sort of. While I was wanting to walk with him and hear about his day, he would be racing 10 feet ahead of me. At first I took that personally (let's give it up for Don Miguel Ruiz!), but then I got my own ego out of the way and remembered that this man is running all day long all over the hospital while I was in one small suite. You can't just slam on the brakes! So, I allowed him that space to come down from his day and usually by the time we reached the car I had caught up with him and by the time we got home we were in sync. Had I made his process about ME, I would have been cranky, needy, demanding or some other version of annoying and then he'd have to fix me after a full day of work. That would just be creepy, and totally unnecessary.

On a few RARE occasions, I have seen my supremely kind and charming husband nearly pick a fight with beloved friends. I remember the first time this happened and I was mortified...he was debating on some taboo subject (you know, politics or religion) with a really mild-mannered 75 year old friend of ours. Now, I've been on the opposite side of Debate Boy a time or two myself and I have to say, it's intense! As a spouse, I felt apologetic...and wanted to distance myself from the situation. Again, my ego got in the way and part of me was concerned about the reflection of this on me. But then, I got a grip and realized that this man had been involved in a huge string of school conferences which were extremely contentious and he had to be the peacekeeper. So, of course, he had all this pressure built up that was about to make him explode. He needed a good old fashioned argument to decompress! So, once I got it, I laughed, let him go since our friend actually was keeping pace just fine. Even if our friend WAS offended in some way, which he wasn't in the least, it would have been between the friend and Scott to work it out. It wasn't about me. Narcissism is just never good for a marriage.

And NO, I have never done anything to make my husband wince, so we'll leave it at that.

Being committed to another doesn't mean you become the other. Lives combine but in healthy marriages they don't become absorbed one into the other. Celebrate each other. Embrace change. Encourage evolution. Remember where you end and they begin. In short, love each other as Other.

Laura Young is a personal development and business coach and collaborator for hire. To learn more about her, visit http://www.wellspringcoaching.com. To visit Laura's blog, Musings of an Ant Watcher, go to [http://antwatching.blogspot.com]

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Friday, January 23, 2009

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Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Real romance definition

Title: Real romance definition


Author: Francis K. Githinji

Article:

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Romance definition is one that sparks a lot of views. This is
because there is no simple way to describe romance. Romance is
many things and, the following are some of the most common
romance definitions. It has been equated to the deliberate show
if love and affection in a relationship. It has also been used
to describe the person you love. For example, when you have a
special person in your life, people will say that you have found
romance in your life. It is more of an act and, romance is
sometime very tangible or visible. It is extremely powerful
because, it has the power to make or break a love relationship.
Lack of romance will make a dead union. Presence of romance will
do the exact opposite. For this reason, it becomes very
necessary for you to have romance in your life. First, if you do
not have romance or someone to love in life, it becomes a huge
problem as you progress with life. You constantly feel like you
are missing something and you keep on hoping for something that
will come in form of romance. Yearning for romance is perfectly
normal.

Since the romance definition holds plenty of weight, you need to
make sure you find a companion in life. However there are many
people who have opted to stay single and, if you feel like you
can do without romance, it is also alright. You will be faced
with many desires but, you must be ready for the consequences.
Therefore, romance begins with somebody finding a person to
love. Looking for romance has become an uphill task. In the
modern society, things seem very hard but, with the right target
and knowledge, you can find the person you are looking for.
Matchmakers are in plenty and, if you are tired of doing it the
traditional way, you can start dating the 21st century way.
There are literally thousands of singles waiting to be joined to
you. Online matchmakers are wonderful because there is no hassle
with their service. This way, you get to find romance even
internationally. Once you have found the person to love, you
will understand the real romance definition.

This is only the beginning or romance. The real romance
definition will involve hard work; to maintain your
relationship. Romance is doing the little subtle things. It is
the show of constant affection and union in a marriage or love
relationship. Romance is going the extra mile and standing firm
on the belief that you will keep your man or woman. In society
today, many marriages are constantly breaking and, this is
partly due to lack of romance. The main reason is the
unwillingness to continue with romance. When you reach this
point, you will have no relationship to talk about. Therefore,
it is time to look seriously into romance and, the impact of it
in our lives. When we value it for its worth, we will be in a
position to cherish it and hopefully maintain it; all for the
betterment of our relationships.


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Asian Dating Paves the Way for Perennial Relationship

Title: Asian Dating Paves the Way for Perennial Relationship

Author: Article Manager

Article:


There are a number of communities all over the globe and all
have their own traditions as well as cultures. As per as Asian
community is concerned, one can find a lot of traditional
characteristics in this ancient community. Undoubtedly, it is
one of the oldest and culturally-rich communities in the world.
People of Asian community have the deep respect and trust each
other. That is why, people from all over the world search for
Asian dating sites over the internet. Asian dating sites
are gaining popularity not only in Europe but also in other
parts of the globe. It is a fact that Asian women are considered
as pretty and true lover. They do not cheat men and they are the
best women to get married with. They have the deep respect and
love for their husbands as well as other family members. They
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An Asian woman will reside with you everlastingly when you win
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Asia register their profiles to Asian dating sites so
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Over the internet, there are a number of free and paid Asian
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Danish Single Women and Men at Denmark Dating Site

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Seeking Danish single women and men at a Denmark dating site is
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women and men registered their personal ads online to find love
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around the world. You should not try adult Denmark dating
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singles who just look for sex. So, you can not find a long term
compatible relationship at these types of Danish dating
services. Even though there are many members who register at
adult Denmark personals services but you should not. You are
seeking a long term companion, not just for sex. Unless you are
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For Denmark singles who seek for love, then try Danish dating
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